Wednesday, November 20, 2013

KAREN TYRRELL - AUTHOR


Please welcome our second amazing author, the fantastic KAREN TYRRELL.  Karen is another victim of bullying - but with a difference.  She is also a lady who is going places.  There is a lot more to Karen than initially meets the eye.  But let's let her tell us all about it.  

Over to you, Karen.


1                   Please tell us a little about your background.

A:  I came from poor family in Sydney. My parents had very little education. From the age of eight I dreamt of being a school teacher.


2            You are an author as well as a ‘few’ other things.   Please tell us about that.

A:   In a previous life I was a primary school teacher for over twenty years.

Writing and speaking about mental health for kids and grown-ups is now my driving force. I’ve published three books - 'Me & Her: a Memoir of Madness', 'Me and Him: A Guide to Recovery' and children‘s book 'Bailey Beats the Blah'. ABC Radio and Today Tonight TV show interviewed me on 'Violence in Schools'. I write articles for South City Bulletin and Healthline USA magazines.  I present talks to libraries, schools and to festivals.  I especially love presenting creative writing workshops and resilience training to the corporate world.  Since 'Bailey Beats the Blah' was released I now present storytelling sessions and pantomimes to children.  In 2010-12 I was the co-ordinator of Logan Writers collective.



3           You have been bullied – with your book ‘Me & Her: a Memoir of Madness’ telling all about it.  Your experience comes from a parent-teacher angle.  Please tell us about that.

A:  Parents of my students harassed me on a daily basis lashing out constant psychological, verbal and written abuse. They taunted me from outside my classroom, yelling out.  One time they stalked me at the local supermarket, following me up and down the aisles, later standing right next to me at the deli counter.


4            In most bullying cases, victims are encouraged to report their experience to staff or parents or even a friend.  What did you do?  Did you tell anyone and what happened?

A:   I told the staff at my school and they kept an eye on me. They encouraged me to ring a counsellor. But I refused, thinking I was OK. But I wasn’t.

When it became a legal case I was told not to talk about it anymore.


5             Do you feel schools and the government are doing enough to combat this ongoing problem?

A:  Bullying is a HUGE problem in our schools and in the workplace, escalating at an alarming rate.  Kids and teachers need to be taught anti-bullying strategies to protect themselves and each other. 


6            What else do you feel could and should be done?

         A:  An anti-bullying specialist needs to be enlisted at every school,          to offer counselling, training, support and advice.


7            You have released several other books.  These are all children’s books?  Please tell us about them.

         A:   The sequel, 'Me and Him:  A Guide to Recovery' is two books          in one.  A mental health self-help manual sharing wellness                        strategies.  PLUS a memoir from the carer's perspective.



8           You have even toured with and for them.  How do you enjoy that and the reaction of your audiences?

A:   I've toured on a local level only.  I'm blessed to have supporters who come along to hear me speak at events about mental health recovery and my bullying experiences.

My tour to the USA was a photo tour with snaps taken of me holding 'Bailey Beats the Blah' at different locations.

9           Have you always wanted to write?  Or, as a child and teen, was there something else you wanted to do?
          
         A:    Writing is my very recent occupation.  When I was a child and teenager, my only focus was to be the best school teacher I could be.

In 2006 after I was released from a psychiatric hospital I joined a local writer's group and I signed up to long term writing courses.  Learning everything about the craft of writing.


10          What do you do in your ‘spare’ time?

 A:  I spend my days writing,spreading the news about recovery and empowerment.  First thing in the morning, I take a brisk walk and meditate.  On Sundays I head for the rainforest.  I tramp beneath the lush ferns and palms, breathing in the oxygenated air.



11        You have been interviewed considerably through the media.  Please tell us about that.

         A:  In 2012 ABC radio interviewed me on the launch of 'Me and Her:  A Memoir of Madness'.  In 2013 Today Tonight interviewed me on Violence in Schools.  Several magazines and newspapers have interviewed me, even Alwatan newspaper from the Middle East.


12         You are married.  Your partner has been a great support and help?

         A:  Steve supported me throughout my illness and my recovery.  I would not have recovered from parent-teacher bullying, PTSD and bipolar disorder without his love and guidance.


13       Who and/or what inspires you?

         A:  I’m drawn to inspiring people who speak out on social issues.              People who lead others despite the opposition they face.
              I’m inspired by the resilience of the human spirit.
              We can turn our lives around and start anew.


14        What are your aspirations for the future?

A:  To keep writing thought provoking books for kids and grown-ups.  The universe will let me know which direction I am to follow next.

                                                                                   
15        What DID your husband, Steve, finally divulge to you?

A:  At the psychiatrist’s office, my husband Steve finally divulged secrets he’d kept from me for six years.  The whole story is revealed in 'Me & Him: A Guide to Recovery'.



16         what is in the pipeline for Karen Tyrrell?

A:  I’m working on several sequels to 'Bailey Beats the BLAH'.
Plus a chapter book with a strong anti-bullying message.


17         Do you have a message you would like to share with the world?

                  A:  You can recover from bullying and empower yourself to                   live the happiest, most fulfilling life again!



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Sunday, November 17, 2013

PLEASE WELCOME ANOTHER AMAZING LADY - 

MATILDA  DE  BATI

MATILDA


I have to admit that I think I must be one of the luckiest people in the world - I am meeting these amazingly talented people and actually helping them to make names for themselves - or trying to.  All the while also helping in the fight against bullying.  Some of these people have been bullied, others haven't but they are all happily joining in the fun - and fight against bullying which, I am glad to say, they all see as the extremely worthwhile cause that it is.

I cannot thank them enough - and long may this last.  Today, I want to introduce another multi-talented lady - the fantastic MATILDA  DE  BATI.




1       Please tell us a little about yourself.

         A:     I am the lovely Matilda De Bati.  The bloody artist, writer and designer.


2       You seem to be a very versatile and multi-talented lady.  Please tell us about that.

         A:     Thank you.  I do not know if I am talented or not.  I just do it.


3       Amongst everything else, you are also designing your own clothing line?

         A:     Yes, I do.  I design lingerie, swimsuits, scarves, men's underwear and fashionable knickers for cats.  All my designs are handmade and crafted - I work with different sorts of fabric too.  Currently I am working on my new small collections:  'Grandma Rocks', 'Surreal Collection of Bras and Knickers', 'Adam Meets God', 'Knickers of Champion' and 'Fashionable Knickers For Your Cats'.


4      Is there anything you DON'T do?

        A:     Fundraising.  I have a dream about a 'Sport & Art Club' for communities.  Where the youngest, along with their parents, can learn martial arts, punch faces, have literature evenings and have the opportunity to play in a small theatre in the club if they wish.

A Bit of Fun

5      What and who are your inspirations?

        A:     At this precise moment, Salvador Dali and Gala.


6     As a child what exactly did you want to do as a career?

       A:     As a child I wanted to play with my toys, friends - and be a star?  Who else?


7    You are a writer, among just about everything else possible.  Please tell us about that.

      A:    I enjoy writing.  My first two books regarding a sport.  Teaching Muaythai to children and adults.  I have been in martial arts for a while (I am a former world cup winner in Muaythai) and have teaching experience on an international level.  I created my programme:  'FUNTHAIMOVE' - it is the introduction to the sport for Muaythai and an easy method of teaching simple basics of non-contact Muaythai to children with fun and games.

Many people never heard of Muaythai.  Muaythai originated in Thailand - it is a fast growing sport around the world and is currently going through recognition to be included in the international olympic games.  So good luck with it.

My two books:  'Teach Muaythai to Children' and 'Teaching Muaythai to Adults'.  They are helpful teaching guides, sharing the experience of working with children, adults and beginners.  Also, accompanied by simple basics of Muaythai art, which has been approved by governing bodies on an international level.  It's about sharing a little bit of experience and helping others who are always looking for development or help.


Matilda in Action

Another creative work is my small collection of surreal poetry.  I love poetry - it's fun to create lyrics, particularly poetry.  The surreal poetry written with slightly adult content.  I think everyone has to create a small book of poetry.

And currently working on my two new books:  Screenplay:  '7 Lovers of Madam Bati' - genre:  romantic comedy - where I name each character by my name:  Matilda De Bati.  Another book named:  'Tragedy Of Old Pussy' - it is short fun stories of subjects:  comedy, fantasy, mystery, detective.

Hopefully I will not get a cancer of my brain afterward.  Jesus, bless me, Amen!


8    You also have a very good sense of humour.  Is that hereditory or uniquely yours?

      A:    Well, mine definitely.


9    You also have your own YouTube Channel and do interview others.  Have you interviewed any 'big names'?  Can you tell us about that?

      A:    I have created a 'Sports Talk Show' and we managed to make a few episodes - it's whole production process and requires a lot of time.

Yes, I enjoy interviewing people.  So far, we had great fun and productive work with such names as:  President of Muaythai Federation, also MMA/Muaythai Champion, Paul 'Semtex' Daley.

MATILDA the Interviewer and Presenter

10   Would it be possible for you to interview some of the people on my blog?

       A:   Yes, with pleasure.  I would love to discover their talents and secrets.


11   What aspirations do you have for the future?

       A:    My present is currently in a fog - what can I say about the future??? (Laughing)


12   Have you had any obstacles to overcome during your career?  How have you handled them?

      A:    1-  Take a nap;
              2- Create knickers for cats in enormous amounts, go to charity, give them for free, they do not want to take them - I insist they take them, say me thank you - I feel better;
              3- Going in restaurant, get drunk, dance on the table, put face on plate with mash and gravy.  Waiter ask me to leave - I punch his face.  He replies and after that I do not remember - but strangely feel good.


14  What are your favourite movies of all time?

       A:    Love comedy, adventure, tragedy, horror, history, silent films, old films.


15  Who are you favourite authors of all time?

      A:    Leading Oscar Wilde - with his sharp tongue.


16  What do you see in the future for your career?

      A:   Graveyard more likely (laughter) or museum near crematorium??  No??  Ok, not museum.


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MATILDA
Photographer - Farhan Khan






Wednesday, November 13, 2013



INTRODUCING - 

ACTRESS

RHIANNON  PAVLOVSKI



1      Please tell us a little about your background.


        A:    I was born October 24th, 1994.  When I was around 4 I moved to the North Shore.  I attended Killara High School and am currently working as a receptionist at Fitness First.  My mother, Jasna, is Croation and my father, Zlatko, is Macedonian - they moved here when they were young.  I have a brother - Travis - who is 15 and a sister, Sinead - who is 13.


2     You are an actor.  Have you always wanted to be one?


       A:     I still remember the first time I stepped on stage and ever since that day I have known I've wanted to be an actress.  I was six.  For the past 13 or so years, never once have I strayed from that dream.  I don't think a day has gone by when I haven't had a thought of acting in an upcoming movie or television show, or dreaming up scenarios of winning an Oscar and appearing on interviews.  I stand in front of the mirror and talk to myself, pretend I am acting for a camera at that very moment.  I'm still trying to figure out if everyone does that or if it's unique to me.  I'll get back to you on that one.  For me, acting has always been the ultimate; my goals are what's most important to me.


3     Is there anyone else in your family who is in entertainment?


       A:    Not particularly, no.  My maternal grandmother used to act and run a theatre group in her village in Croatia, but that's about as far as I can see that the entertainment gene descended.  However, my mother was an art teacher so that could be where some of my creativity stems from.  My sister is also a brilliant singer.


4    Have you had formal training?


      A:     Yes, a lot of it.  I've been having drama lessons since I was 6, and have tried out many different drama schools after that.  My most notable training is short courses with the Australian Theatre for Young People and the National Institute of Dramatic Art.  I am currently in the process of doing an eight week course at the Australian Theatre for Young People, called 'The Actor's Toolkit', which teaches the essentials all actors should know.


5     What do you enjoy doing when not acting?

       A:    To be honest, there's not much I do outside of work and acting.  I work full time so I try and fill up any of my spare time with auditions, acting projects or acting lessons.  I love to do the usual:  coffee with friends, spending time with family etc, but my main hobby has always been performing.


6     Have you done any travelling for your work?  Please tell us about that.

       A:     Not particularly.  I have been taking acting lessons since I was very young but I am still finding my feet in the acting world and haven't yet had any need to travel.


7     What is next in the pipeline for Rhiannon Pavlovski?

       A:     Ultimately, I'd like to work on as many projects as I can - whether it be short films, commercials, TV shows or feature films - I want to do it all!


8     Have you ever been bullied at all?  At school, work, wherever?

       A:      It took me a while to find my feet my high school.  I never really knew what it was but I guess it came down to that people found me annoying.  In Year 7 I had a couple of girls be mean to me.  Really childish stuff - I remember a boy coming up to kick me, because these two girls had asked him to.  Didn't help when you were already crying.

I remember trying out a few different friendship groups and came across one in Year 8.  I could sense that I wasn't particularly welcome there, but it was better than sitting alone.  Eventually, that friendship group came to an end.  There was one girl who never really liked me and one day we ended up having some sort of a fight.  I can't really remember what is was about, but eventually one of the other girls stepped in and yelled something at me that definitely shut me up.  She interrupted, screaming:  'No-one even likes you!'  They don't say words can 'feel like a slap in the face' for nothing.  I remember looking around at the faces of my 'friends', all of them in shock.  The rest of that day wasn't easy, I remember having to sit down in an outside school assembly, with the girl who yelled at me crouching down in front of me, apologising.  It was that awful feeling of trying so hard not to cry, that all you can do is sob.  The rest of that day was just a river of tears in the bathroom.  It's a really scary feeling and devastating feeling to know that you aren't liked by anyone.  My mum was away on holidays and I didn't tell my dad.  In all honesty, I just hoped he would notice something was wrong.  However, in true actress fashion, I put on my most depressive face and of course knew something was up.

Unfortunately, when it comes to being rejected from a friendship group, the effects last a log longer than the immediate pain.  I had to think about who I was going to sit with at recess and spent quite a few days sitting in the bathrooms - if you're going to sit alone, you want to at least save yourself the embarrassment of it.  I eventually became good friends with a girl that was in a similar situation to me.  It took a while for both of us to integrate into another friendship group, but we slowly got there.  I went back to hanging out with those same girls again.  It all started to get better towards the end of Year 9 - we all went out for my 15th birthday and from then on we became good friends.

School got easier from then on.  I stayed friends with a couple of girls from the group and made some new ones.  These are the people who I am still friends with today.  After Year 9 it all died down, with just a few little typical girl fights.  That same girl that started the fight with me in Year 8 never really stopped having a problem with me.  One day in Year 10 or 11 we got into another yelling match - she called me a buffalo.  Great insult, hey?  At that point I was completely fed up with girl drama.  But after that, really, not much else happened to me directly.  However, in Year 11, it was my best friend who was targeted.  My best friend is openly gay and for what it's worth, had a lot of people who loved him in high school.  My year group was one that never really got along.  One night, all of us were at a large party at one of our friend's house.  All was going well, until my friend accidentally bumped into one of the guys from my school whilst passing through a doorway.  My friend kept walking, but the person he bumped into wasn't happy.  He was extremely angry and swearing and his friends had to calm him down.  Later that night, after the party, a bunch of us were sitting at the local shops.  Me and two friends were waiting for my dad to come and pick us up.  All of a sudden I saw a bunch of guys running from the shops, but I didn't think anything of it.  My friends stayed over and the next morning we were chatting.  One of my friends said that she wondered if my best friend was okay.  I asked what she meant.  Turns out, these five guys had run to go and find my best friend.  I immediately called and asked him where he was.  He told me he was in the hospital. They hit and hurt him so badly they had fractured his knee.  Five guys on one, two of them standing back and three of them physically abusing him.

I felt helpless - I saw those boys running somewhere.  I kept replaying the scene in my mind.  If I had only known where they were running to I could've stopped them.  But eventually I realised that these thoughts wouldn't get me anywhere so I did everything I could to be there for my best friend.  Him and I have been through a lot together but now our relationship is stronger than ever.


9    What and/or who are your inspirations?

      A:    I definitely take inspiration from actresses such as Meryl Streep, Jessica Lange, Diane Keaton, Audrey Hepburn, Nicole Kidman as well as actors like Tom Hanks, Daniel Day-Lewis, Leonardo DiCaprio, Robert De Nero, Al Pacino, Will Smith, Hugh Jackman, Johnny Depp, Ryan Gosling, Sean Penn, Kevin Spacey and Christoph Waltz - just a small portion of actors and actresses who I admire and take inspiration from.  Ultimately I look up to actors who are able to be versatile; playing a large range of characters truthfully.  They are, in their entirety, what I aim to become.


10   What do you plan for your career long term?

        A:      I would like to be a film actress - mainly feature films.  Of course, an Oscar win would be ultimate and I am definitely striving to meet that goal.  I would also love to work with and create charity organisations - the word that charities such as Comic Relief do are truly inspirational.


11   Do you have a message you would like to send to the world?

       A:      I guess what I will always try to get across is the message that we are all equal.  Different, of course, with all our individual hopes and dreams, but the same basic human needs are relevant to all of us.  I believe that you should not be discriminated against due to something you can't change - whether that be your race, gender, sexuality, any disabilities you may have etc.  However, this seems to happen all too often and be the main cause of discrimination.  I truly believe in treating others the way you want to be treated.  As humans, our actions can have such an incredibly powerful impact, whether it be something as simple as a smile to brighten someone's day, or a snicker to bring it down completely.  We tend to forget what it feels like to be another person, or how we feel by the way others treat us.  It's an overused saying, but walking in someone else's shoes really does give you a powerful perspective and you may find out that their feet are not much of a different size to yours.  I am a firm believer in living life to the fullest, trying everything so that you can never say 'I wish' and being good to others, because without kindness, one can never truly be happy.


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Saturday, November 9, 2013

DRUM ROLL PLEASE .... 

THE WORLD OF AUTHORS

INTRODUCING THE VERY TALENTED

MELISSA  WRAY



1         Please tell us a little about your background;


       A:   I am the mother of two beautiful kids who keep me very entertained.  I am a passionate primary school teacher who loves teaching.  I am a reader from way back and will cook tea with a  book in my hand if the storyline is too gripping to put down.  I am a glass half type of person and try to always look for the positives in life.


2    Have you always enjoyed writing?  Please tell us a little about your writing journey?

          A:    I was a closet writer for a long time.  Even my closest friends didn't know of my hobby!  Then with the publication of 'Destiny Road' my writing became a bit more public.  It has now become a daily ritual I love.


3        How many books have you had published?

           A:      'Destiny Road' is my first and only published novel so far.  I have features in some other publications as part of a collective of authors.  I have also won some prizes in writing competitions.


4        Do you base your writing on personal experience?  Or is it pure imagination and creativity?

          A:      I made the same choice Jessica makes in 'Destiny Road'.  I chose to go and live with my dad for the first time when I was sixteen and had to live with that decision.  Unlike Jessica I had known him my entire life but my parents divorced when I was very young.  My dad died several years ago.  It always haunted me that I never told him how grateful I was that he agreed to let me live with him all those years ago.  I dedicated 'Destiny Road' to his memory.  With the publication I feel like I have said thank you, so hopefully he knows.


5        How hard was it to find an agent and/or publisher?

          A:      I saw a competition to win a publishing contract.  It was through Morris Publishing Australia.  My maiden name is Morris so I thought it too much of a coincidence not to enter.  I never dreamed I would be shortlisted, let alone win a publishing contract!


6        What do you enjoy most about being a writer?

          A:     Writing transports me to my own world.  I can switch off from the humdrum of daily life and get carried away in my story.


7        Did you ever have aspirations to follow a different career to writing?

          A:      From the time I could talk I wanted to be a primary school teacher.  I worked many different jobs to put myself through University and achieve that goal.  I still remember the pride and joy of walking into my own classroom fifteen years ago.  It is a wonderfully, challenging but rewarding career.


8       Who and what are your main inspirations and why?

         A:     My children inspire me to do better all the time.  To keep working towards my own goals.  I can't tell them they can be and do whatever they want and then not follow my own advice.


9       You are a mum.  Do any of your children look like they might also become writers?

          A:    My seven year old has a terrific flair for writing.  He has drawers full of stories he has written already!  My daughter is five and begins school next year.  She does enjoy 'storytime' with her dolls.  I often catch her reading to them.


10       Have you met with any obstacles during this journey?  How have you overcome them?

           A:     The biggest obstacle would be self-doubt.  I'm working on it though.


11      What are you more comfortable with?  Fiction or non-fiction and what genre/s?

          A:     Definitely fiction.  Realistic fiction.


12     Do you have any other passions?

         A:     Reading.  A never ending To Be Read List.  Travel.  Another never ending To Be Visited List.


13    Do you have any plans to give up writing?  Ever?

        A:      Writing has just become part of me now.  Ideas hit me at all different times.  I can't imagine not working on something.


14    What is next in the pipeline for Melissa Wray?

      A:      I have just completed by second YA story, 'Summer Change'.  Are there any publishers out there interested???  I have begun work on my third novel, 'Late Bloomer' and hope to have the first draft finished by Christmas.


15    Do you have any favourite authors?  Reasons?

         A:        Australian, Bryce Courtenay.  He is an amazing storyteller who I had the honour of meeting once.  Sadly he died last year.  I can't bring myself to read his final novel knowing it will be the last one I ever read.


16   Do you have any tips for other emerging writers?

       A:         Just write.  Let the thoughts and ideas spill out.  Don't worry if it's rubbish or makes little sense or you don't know how the storyline will work out.  It will work out and you can edit later.  Go to author talks.  Invest in some writing courses/workshops.  I just joined YA writers group.  Although it's in early stages I think it's going to be a terrific support group.


17   What are your dreams for the future?

       A:       My dreams are for my two children to know the happiness, satisfaction and enjoyment life can offer.  But for myself I just want to know that I made the most of every opportunity.  I don't want to look back and wonder, what if?


'Dreams do come true, if we only wish hard enough'.



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 'Destiny Road' is a journey of choices, consequences, heartbreak and acceptance.  Readers will get to experience the journey of not just Jessica but all the characters involved in the story.  Melissa hopes readers connect with Jessica and the fact that we sometimes have to live with decisions and accept the consequences that come from choices.

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Saturday, November 2, 2013



FIROSHA!




SONG REVIEW

‘WHAT YOU’VE DONE’



Have to say I was hooked from the very first strains of music – a very catchy tune – still going round and round and round and ….

      Firosha’s powerful voice delivers her personally written lyrics effortlessly.  They are clear and easy to understand.  This amazing new talent is an absolute treasure, although yet to be universally recognised, but with such abilities, surely she will be very soon.

       The lyrics tell the story of a love happily lost and what that person ‘did to her’ – how he has affected her life – and that she has moved on, to a new partner who is completely different to the old.  This new one is making her happy. 

        While Firosha has played out the whole story in one song, I found myself wanting more. 


        Lyrics are as follows: 





‘WHAT YOU’VE DONE’


You don’t know what you’ve done
What you’ve done for me boy
How you’ve made me strong boy
What you’ve done for me boy
You’ll never understand
What you’ve done for me boy
How you’ve made me grow boy
What you’ve done for me boy

Never knew what I wanted
Always compromised myself
Never had the courage needed
To get out of this hell
Now I sit and I look back
Why did I ignore the facts
It was never going to work
I could have saved myself the hurt

I don’t know why I always felt the need to save you
I have a better chance at life because we’re through
Everything’s great in the end
I’ve built love around me
Now I’m my own best friend
And the world is coming at me

You don’t know what you’ve done
What you’ve done for me boy
How you’ve made me strong boy
What you’ve done for me boy
You’ll never understand
What you’ve done for me boy
How you’ve made me grow boy
What you’ve done for me boy

 I sit here older, wiser and feeling content
Since the day you’ve left me
I live with no regrets
I’ve been blessed a lifetime
And it’s all happening at once
Not a waste of my time
You’vehelped me
I know exactly what I want
I know exactly what I need
And no-one like you will ever try to break me

You don’t know what you’ve done
What you’ve done for me boy
How you’ve made me strong boy
What you’ve done for me boy
You’ll never understand
What you’ve done for me boy
How you’ve made me grow boy
What you’ve done for me boy

Time flies now there’s someone new
The best part is he is nothing like you

You don’ know what you’ve done
What you’ve done for me boy
How you’ve made me strong boy
What you’ve done for me boy





Links:           Video - 'What You've Done'
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