HERE’S A GRANDMOTHER
WITH A DIFFERENCE – SHE’S A BIKER, SHE’S INSPIRATIONAL AND SHE LOVES COUNTRY
DRIVING
She’s another long
standing friend of mine – and she comes from my own original home town of
Adelaide. Please welcome biker KAREN
DART, mum to five boys and grandmother to her gorgeous granddaughter,
Hannah.
One of five siblings, Karen was born
and raised in Adelaide to a father who had his own business as a tool drafts
man – he used to sell art supplies to schools and local artists. He also used to tell Karen to travel and find
her own way in life – and that’s exactly what she has done. Her first trip was to Qld – and it seems
that’s where she was actually bitten by the travel bug. Then foreign shores beckoned and at the ripe
old age of twenty one she headed to the other side of the world, to the
UK. Like many of us (in those days,
anyway) there were times when money was a tad scarce – but we all lived to tell
the tale and Karen was still able to live and work in the UK for awhile, as
well as visiting parts of Europe and Scandinavia. She also made many new friends before
returning to good old Adelaide in South Australia. And once back at home she met and married her
husband and ten years later – they were the very proud parents of five boys. Sadly the marriage did not work out and after
thirteen years they divorced.
Karen found that, becoming a single
mum and having to work to support her family – time was precious. Her various jobs ranged from selling clothes,
running the school canteen and childcare.
But it was also at this stage that she realised her education needed a
boost to help improve her employment prospects, so it was back to school for
her. Karen subsequently passed at TAFE
in aged care, disability, leisure and health, earning herself a Certificate
3. Over the ensuing years she was then
able to work in other fields including community care for the aged, palliative,
dementia and disabled care. The reason
that Karen had set her sights on becoming a carer was simply because it meant
she could work when the boys were at school – and as it turned out, she did
night shifts at a venue convenient to her home – across the road – literally,
from her house. So she could actually
check on the boys in her breaks. How
good is that?
2006 saw her move up to Broken Hill,
just over the border from her home state of SA, into NSW. While it was a big move, she did have many
friends there already – and she had decided that it was time for Karen. And good on her. This is also the time when motor bikes
entered her life – her first one being a Honda 250. But Karen was not completely new to motor
bike riding – she had done so a few times through her life prior to this and
she has always encouraged her sons to ride as well – the eldest and second
youngest still do. The first time she
rode one was, as a child, on her auntie’s farm south of Adelaide – and that’s
where and when she first felt ‘freedom’.
But now, many years later, in her late 40’s, she was determined to get
her licence (which she did – but not until after a lot of clutch crunching and
rather slow riding) and she finally also got her pride and joy – a Honda 750
Shadow – it was her turn again and she was determined to make a go of it. Hence, her love for motor bikes was re-borne and
thrived. It was also the move to Broken
Hill that saw her starting to support disabled clients – which she also now
does back in Adelaide as she has since returned to SA to live.
She does belong to some motor cycle
clubs too. Ulysses being one and she now
travels around the nation with her friends from this club. She rides with them up to Townsville for
their AGM – leaves her feeling a tad stiff, with a sore bottom – but well worth
it. Another group is G.H.O.S.T. Riders
(Grey Haired Old Sports and Tourer Riders).
Also Shadow Riders. Apart from
sharing a love of motor bike riding, these are all also very social clubs. Karen does love riding with her friends – it
seems a lot of tall stories and laughter are swapped when they stop for coffee
or lunch. But sometimes – all she wants
to do is ride. She does add: ‘When
you ride you might have fellow riders nearby but you are alone in your thoughts
– not like a car where you listen on the radio or chatting to someone’.
The rides also vary in length – when
she had had her learner’s for only a couple of days and still had her first
bike, she rode from Broken Hill to Burra in what should have taken four or five
hours, but with the headwind and other factors, it ended up taking her seven to
eight hours. She was also sure that when
she eventually got off the bike she was leaning over to one side. Other trips have included Townsville (as
mentioned), Tasmania and in varying weather – at one stage, they were riding in
temperatures of 49*C. Ouch! Karen does also drive a car which she has
owned for a long time. She also loves
going out on 4WD trips with her husband.
One of their ambitions is to take his Nissan Patrol and explore the
outback – that’s great to hear – go
for it! She also says she can ride at
any time in the country/outback – because of the freedom of the open space and
seeing how beautiful our country is. As
she adds, in the city you have to look out for everyone and be two steps ahead
all the time as people are racing too fast to look out for you. Many are the times she has had to change
lanes to avoid being hurt because of negligent drivers. Well said.
Prior to marriage, her work was
mainly in admin – she has worked at different banks, the education department
and she ran a computer while living in England.
Most of her employment included data entry or working on telex
machines. Believe it or not, as Karen
says: ‘I laugh now to think I always wanted to be a hairdresser when I was
young – and to think when I was in the UK I did not get my hair cut for over
three years’. She adds that these
days she has to be told to have her hair cut by her husband.
Inspirations? Karen does not feel she had anyone in
particular to inspire her. She has
always just moved on and tried things. ‘I don’t believe in settling down and my aim
in life is to see and experience things’, adding that she likes to
understand what makes people tick – so, as she says, sometimes she might appear
to be quiet (who….Karen???) but this doesn’t last for long though – it just
means she is working things out. ‘What makes me happy is people smiling and
laughing. By travelling, I have learned
you don’t have to be rich to be happy.’
Never a truer word was said!
And spare time? What
spare time? As she says: ‘Spare
time is what I always look for’, and so say all of us! As can be gathered she loves riding and when
there is a ride on, she loves going with her husband (Steve) to join their
friends riding in the hills or along the coast, mainly south of Adelaide. But she does
have other interests including reading – and just plain relaxing. Naturally she loves having time with Hannah,
cooking and watching videos (the latter she says is a good excuse to watch
kid’s shows).
Karen has some advice for other
riders, particularly young ones. She
gets very upset when she sees youngsters riding bikes or scooters, wearing only
shorts, or just tops and thongs. She
feels that they think if they have an
accident, they’ll just hit the road, bounce and be fine – or it won’t happen. Karen has personally had a few experiences
where she can completely support these feelings and advice.
And in parting: ‘You’re
never too old to learn. I was in my late
40s when I decided to learn to ride – and here I am, still riding and having fun. Riders come in ages young and old
and you always look out for each other’.
She does add that over the years she has lost a lot of good friends,
fellow riders, mainly through cancer. ‘But I know they are riding up there with
the wind in their faces and having a great time…’
What a way to go! And remember, as Karen says – you really are
never too old to learn. Go Karen!
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